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You Are Pretending You Have A Problem

You Are Pretending You Have A Problem

Can you grasp the concept that you are pretending you have a problem?

You will need to realize that no matter what the issues, it is only the perception coming from the beliefs you hold to be true.

You may say, well that is all well and good, but my life is terrible right now.

Yet, who or what is saying this? Where is it coming from? Why does it feel so real? Who is the you that is pretending?

You see the only way to make something a problem is to give it meaning and judge it against what you already believe as what is needed to feel loved and complete.

You are holding onto innumerable beliefs that say this is what needs to be for me to feel happy. Much of all this can be understood as desires. I want this and I need that to change. Even just the simplest thoughts of I am bored means you desire something to happen to make you feel excited or happy.

It must be recognized that it is the judgment from your beliefs that is creating the feeling there is a problem.

A problem simply is when you fight, resist, or deny what the moment is right now. The only reason this happens is because it is not what you believe you desire in that moment. In other words it is not what you want.

To be clear nothing is a problem unless you believe it is not what you want.

You can change your beliefs, which is a wonderful start and works miracles in this life experience. There is a greater step though, which is the true way.

Realizing the “Self” your True Nature dissolves away the attachment to the beliefs, which constitutes the ego.

The person you believe you are is nothing more than a bunch of beliefs. Your person is your persona. The Latin origin of the word persona means mask. So who you believe yourself to be is just a mask you are wearing. You wear the mask by attaching the meaning of your existence to a bunch of thoughts. As long as you wear this mask you exist. In other words you believe you exist as the mask of beliefs, and anytime this mask of beliefs is threatened it causes a sense of a problem. What is the origin of any problem? It is the fear of death. The mask of beliefs thinks that anything that goes against it is a threat to its existence. This is the root of all problems and the root of all pain and suffering.

There are no problems only occurrences. You the True “Self” pretending you have a need and attachment for things and outcomes. Yet in truth you the True Nature has no attachment to needs or desires.

If there are health issues, it is only the mask of beliefs that says this threatens my existence, that is a problem. Your True Nature doesn’t see it as a problem just an expression of its Devine nature.

Certainly, practical steps can be taken to heal the health issues, just realize that the ego is not needed to do this and in fact only makes matters worse.

Stop pretending to be something you are not. You are not a mask of beliefs.

Our health and wellbeing lay in awakening to our True Nature and letting go of the habit of identity with all its fears of non-existence.

In truth it is only a conditioned response or habit in believing in an identity.

Giving meaning to thoughts and events and holding onto them as part of a false identity is what causes all the pain and suffering.

Holding onto a false sense of your true Self, is the cause of pain and suffering. It is not needed and does not give this life experience any true joy and peace.

All that is needed is the realization that you do not require a made up, (false), identity to exist.

The time is now, not sometime in the future for you to create health and wellness. See this moment as the critical point of changing your life around.

Do you want to be healthy, fit, and enjoy a deep sense of wellbeing and abundance? Then let go of every idea, and attachment to the contrary.

Are you ready to change your life experience? Are you ready to begin enjoying health, fitness, wellbeing, and abundance?

If so, let me help you.

It takes one simple step. You just have to ask for help.

Pick up the phone or email us at our website, or send a private message on Facebook.

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I wish for you a Vibrant Life.

Love Your Guts, Dave

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