Most all of what you are experiencing or going through is due to you. It is, may I say, the little you, the false you. This you is the you, You have created by being alive in thoughts of identification with your experiences.
We will call this little false you, your ego, personality, self – image. All of these are the same as the little false you.
Just to go a bit deeper, if you break the self – image apart, there is the “Self” and then the image. It is the image that is the little false you.